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The Patient Who Changed How I Practice

Five years ago, a patient named Sarah came to see me after her second heart attack. She was 51 years old.

“Three cardiologists,” she said, showing me a folder full of medical records. “All good doctors. I’m on six medications. I’ve had two stents. My cholesterol is perfect now. But I still feel terrible. Depressed. Exhausted. Anxious about every twinge in my chest. And nobody seems to care about anything except my heart.”

She paused, then added: “I’m not just a heart. I’m a whole person. Why doesn’t anyone treat me like one?”

That conversation changed my practice.

Sarah became one of my first truly integrative patients. We didn’t just treat her depression. We looked at everything: her cardiovascular risk factors, her inflammation, her metabolism, her sleep, her stress response, her relationships, her sense of purpose.

We combined:

  • Medication (SSRI chosen specifically for cardiovascular benefit)
  • Intensive therapy (CBT plus mindfulness)
  • Comprehensive lab work revealing high Lp(a) and inflammation
  • Evidence-based supplements (omega-3s, CoQ10, magnesium)
  • Major lifestyle overhaul (not just “eat better and exercise” but specific, targeted changes)
  • Breathing exercises and HRV training
  • Coordination with her cardiologist for optimal medical management

It took time. Six months before she felt significantly better. A year before she felt transformed.

But when I saw her recently for a routine follow-up, she looked like a different person. Energized. Engaged. Living her life instead of just surviving.

“I haven’t had another cardiac event,” she said. “My depression is gone. My anxiety is manageable. I actually feel good. And I think it’s because someone finally looked at all of me, not just my diagnosis.”

She was right. And that’s what I want to talk about today.

Not just one intervention. Not just medication or just therapy or just lifestyle changes. All of it, working together, creating something more powerful than any single piece alone.

This is what comprehensive integrative care looks like.

 

The Problem with the Current System

Let me start by acknowledging what’s broken, because you probably already know it.

We Treat Body Parts, Not People

You have a heart problem? See a cardiologist. They treat your heart.

You have depression? See a psychiatrist. They treat your brain.

You have high blood sugar? See an endocrinologist. They treat your metabolism.

Nobody is coordinating. Nobody is looking at how these things affect each other. Nobody is treating you as a whole person whose brain, heart, metabolism, immune system, and stress response are all connected.

You get excellent care for your heart. Excellent care for your brain. But nobody is thinking about your heart-brain connection.

We Focus on Symptoms, Not Root Causes

You’re depressed? Here’s an antidepressant.

Your cholesterol is high? Here’s a statin.

Your blood pressure is up? Here’s a blood pressure medication.

These medications are often necessary and lifesaving. I prescribe them all the time. But if we stop there, we miss the opportunity to ask: Why is this happening? What’s the root cause? Can we address the underlying dysfunction, not just manage symptoms?

We Ignore Prevention

Our healthcare system is actually a disease management system. We wait for problems to develop, then we treat them.

But what if we could catch things early? What if we could see that your depression is increasing your cardiovascular risk before you have a heart attack? What if we could identify and address inflammation before it causes disease?

Prevention is always better than treatment. But our system doesn’t incentivize or support it well.

We Underestimate Lifestyle

“Eat better and exercise more.” That’s the standard advice, delivered in 30 seconds during a rushed appointment.

But meaningful lifestyle change requires:

  • Understanding what specifically to do
  • Having a plan
  • Support and accountability
  • Addressing barriers (like depression making it impossible to exercise)
  • Time and consistent effort

Generic advice doesn’t cut it. Specific, personalized guidance does.

 

What Integrative Care Actually Means

Integrative medicine isn’t alternative medicine. It’s not rejecting conventional medicine. It’s bringing together the best of evidence-based conventional medicine with evidence-based lifestyle interventions, mind-body practices, and targeted supplementation.

It means:

Looking at the Whole Person

Not just your symptoms, but your complete health picture:

  • Mental health and physical health together
  • How your thoughts affect your body
  • How your body affects your thoughts
  • Your relationships and social support
  • Your sleep, stress, nutrition, movement
  • Your purpose and meaning in life

All of it matters. All of it connects.

Understanding Root Causes

Why do you have depression? Is it:

  • Chronic inflammation?
  • Metabolic dysfunction?
  • Thyroid problems?
  • Vitamin deficiencies?
  • Chronic stress and trauma?
  • Genetic vulnerability plus environmental triggers?
  • All of the above?

Finding and addressing root causes leads to better, more lasting results than just treating symptoms.

Combining Multiple Modalities

Using every evidence-based tool available:

  • Medications when needed (chosen thoughtfully for your specific situation)
  • Therapy that actually works (CBT, MBCT, ACT)
  • Targeted supplementation based on evidence and your needs
  • Specific lifestyle interventions (not generic advice)
  • Mind-body practices (breathing, mindfulness, biofeedback)
  • Addressing sleep, relationships, purpose

No one intervention does everything. But combining them creates synergy.

Emphasizing Prevention

Not just treating current problems but preventing future ones. If you have depression, we’re also thinking about your cardiovascular risk. If you have family history, we’re being proactive, not reactive.

Partnering with You

You’re not a passive recipient of care. You’re an active participant. You make informed decisions. You understand what’s happening in your body and why we’re recommending specific interventions.

This is a partnership for your health, not a doctor-knows-best dictatorship.

 

The Assessment Process: How It Actually Works

Let me walk you through what comprehensive integrative assessment and care looks like in practice.

First Contact: The Comprehensive Evaluation

Time: 90-120 minutes, sometimes split across two sessions

What we cover:

  • Your complete mental health history
  • Your complete medical history
  • Detailed family history (psychiatric and cardiovascular)
  • Current symptoms and how they affect your life
  • Past treatments and what worked or didn’t
  • Your lifestyle in detail (sleep, diet, exercise, stress, relationships)
  • Your goals and what matters most to you
  • Physical exam and vital signs

The goal: Understand you as a whole person, not just a diagnosis.

The Lab Work: Going Deeper

Standard psychiatric labs:

  • Thyroid, B12, vitamin D, basic metabolic panel

Advanced cardiovascular labs:

  • Complete lipid panel including Lp(a)
  • Inflammatory markers (hs-CRP, sometimes others)
  • Metabolic markers (A1c, fasting insulin)
  • Omega-3 index
  • Homocysteine if indicated

Why go deeper? Because standard testing misses a lot. We want to know about hidden cardiovascular risk, inflammation, metabolic dysfunction, nutritional deficiencies.

The Integration: Connecting the Dots

Two weeks later, we review everything together. I don’t just tell you “your labs are fine” or hand you a prescription. We look at:

  • How your mental health affects your physical health
  • What risk factors you have (known and hidden)
  • What root causes might be contributing to your symptoms
  • What opportunities we have for intervention
  • What your priorities are

Then we create a comprehensive plan together.

The Plan: Multiple Interventions Working Together

Your plan might include:

Medication (if appropriate):

  • Chosen specifically for your situation
  • Considering both mental health and cardiovascular effects
  • Started thoughtfully with close monitoring

Therapy:

  • Evidence-based approaches (CBT, MBCT, ACT, IPT)
  • Weekly initially, then tapering as appropriate
  • Skills-based, not just talking about feelings

Targeted supplementation:

  • Based on your specific needs and lab results
  • Quality products at evidence-based doses
  • Usually omega-3s plus others as indicated

Specific lifestyle interventions:

  • Sleep optimization (with specific strategies)
  • Exercise plan that’s realistic for where you are now
  • Nutrition guidance (specific, not generic)
  • Stress management techniques you’ll actually use

Mind-body practices:

  • Breathing exercises (simple, effective, daily)
  • Mindfulness or meditation
  • HRV training if indicated
  • Progressive relaxation or yoga

Coordination with other providers:

  • Your primary care doctor
  • Cardiologist if you have heart disease
  • Other specialists as needed

Follow-up and adjustment:

  • Close monitoring initially
  • Regular check-ins
  • Lab rechecks to assess progress
  • Adjusting the plan based on what’s working

The Timeline: Realistic Expectations

First 2-4 weeks:

  • Starting interventions
  • Adjusting to any medications
  • Learning new skills
  • May not feel dramatically better yet

4-8 weeks:

  • Starting to see benefits
  • Side effects settling down
  • Practices becoming routine
  • Noticeable improvement in mood, energy, sleep

3 months:

  • Significant improvement typically
  • Rechecking some labs (inflammation, etc.)
  • Refining the plan
  • Building on success

6 months:

  • Substantial improvement
  • New habits established
  • Comprehensive lab recheck
  • Transition to maintenance phase

12 months:

  • Typically in remission or much better
  • Strong skills and habits
  • Less frequent visits
  • Ongoing prevention focus

This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a journey. But the results are worth it.

 

Real Stories: Transformation Through Integration

Let me share three patients whose stories illustrate what’s possible with comprehensive integrative care.

James: From Crisis to Thriving

James was 48 when I first met him. He’d just had a heart attack. He was overweight, prediabetic, severely depressed, anxious, not sleeping. He looked defeated.

“I’m going to die young like my dad did,” he said. His father had died of a heart attack at 52.

What we found:

  • Severe depression and anxiety
  • Lp(a) of 156 (very high genetic risk)
  • hs-CRP of 6.8 (high inflammation)
  • Prediabetes (A1c 6.0%)
  • Insulin resistance
  • Sleep apnea (undiagnosed)
  • Extremely poor diet
  • Zero exercise
  • High stress job with no boundaries

Comprehensive plan:

  • Escitalopram (SSRI with cardiovascular benefits)
  • CBT plus cardiac psychology
  • Sleep study and CPAP for sleep apnea
  • High-dose omega-3s
  • CoQ10 (he was on a statin)
  • Berberine for insulin resistance
  • Magnesium
  • Complete diet overhaul (worked with nutritionist)
  • Gradual increase in physical activity
  • Daily breathing exercises
  • Stress management and work boundaries
  • Close coordination with his cardiologist

Results after one year:

  • Depression in full remission
  • Anxiety much improved
  • Lost 45 pounds
  • A1c down to 5.4% (no longer prediabetic)
  • hs-CRP down to 1.6 (normal)
  • Sleeping well with CPAP
  • Exercising regularly (actually enjoys it now)
  • Working reasonable hours with boundaries
  • No further cardiac events
  • “I feel better than I have in 20 years”

James didn’t just recover from his heart attack and depression. He transformed his health. He’s not just surviving. He’s thriving.

Linda: The Mystery Solved

Linda was 44, struggling with treatment-resistant depression for five years. She’d tried six different antidepressants. Nothing worked well. She was exhausted all the time.

“I feel like I’m 80,” she said. “Everything hurts. I can barely function.”

What we found:

  • Depression with significant fatigue
  • High inflammation (hs-CRP 5.2)
  • Possible autoimmune thyroiditis (positive antibodies, but TSH “normal”)
  • Vitamin D deficiency (level of 18)
  • Omega-3 deficiency (index 3.2%)
  • Food sensitivities (testing suggested gluten and dairy)
  • Poor sleep quality
  • High family history of autoimmune disease and heart disease

Comprehensive plan:

  • Trial of thyroid hormone (even though TSH was technically normal)
  • SSRI (we tried a different one she hadn’t taken)
  • Anti-inflammatory diet (eliminated gluten and dairy)
  • High-dose vitamin D
  • High-dose omega-3s
  • Curcumin and other anti-inflammatory supplements
  • Sleep optimization
  • Mindfulness-based stress reduction
  • Gastroenterology consultation (diagnosed with celiac disease)

Results after six months:

  • Depression improved dramatically
  • Energy returned
  • Pain decreased significantly
  • hs-CRP down to 1.9
  • Vitamin D corrected
  • Omega-3 index up to 7.8%
  • Sleeping well
  • “I feel like myself again for the first time in years”

Linda’s “treatment-resistant depression” wasn’t resistant. It was being driven by multiple underlying issues that standard psychiatric care had missed. Once we addressed the root causes, she got better.

Michael: Prevention in Action

Michael was 38, came to see me for anxiety and work stress. Not depressed, not in crisis. Just stressed and not functioning optimally.

What we found:

  • Mild to moderate anxiety
  • Family history was alarming: father had heart attack at 49, grandfather at 48, uncle at 52
  • Lp(a) of 142 (high)
  • Beginning insulin resistance
  • Elevated inflammation
  • High stress job in tech
  • Poor sleep
  • Mediocre diet
  • Sporadic exercise

Michael wasn’t sick. But he was on a trajectory toward his family pattern.

Comprehensive plan:

  • CBT for anxiety and stress management
  • No medication initially (not needed for his level of symptoms)
  • High-dose omega-3s
  • Plant sterols and fiber for cardiovascular risk
  • Berberine for early insulin resistance
  • Complete lifestyle overhaul focused on prevention
  • Daily breathing and mindfulness practice
  • Sleep optimization
  • Cardiology consultation for preventive care given family history and Lp(a)
  • Close monitoring

Results after one year:

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    • Anxiety well-controlled with skills (never needed medication)
    • Lost 20 pounds
    • Insulin resistance reversed
    • Inflammation normalized
    • Sleeping well
    • Exercising regularly
    • Managing stress effectively
    • Working with preventive cardiologist
    • On track to break the family pattern

    Michael’s story is about prevention. He wasn’t waiting for a crisis. He addressed risk factors proactively. In 10-15 years, this approach might save his life.

     

    The Synergy: Why Integration Works Better

    Here’s the thing about integrative care: the interventions enhance each other.

    Medication + Therapy Works Better Than Either Alone

    For moderate to severe depression, combining medication and therapy leads to:

    • Faster improvement
    • Better outcomes
    • Lower relapse rates
    • More lasting recovery

    The medication helps normalize brain chemistry so you have capacity to engage in therapy. The therapy teaches skills that prevent relapse when you eventually taper off medication.

    Lifestyle Changes Are Easier When Mental Health Improves

    It’s hard to exercise when you’re depressed. It’s hard to eat well when you’re anxious. It’s hard to make healthy choices when you’re exhausted.

    Treat the mental health first, and lifestyle changes become possible. Then lifestyle changes further improve mental health. Positive feedback loop.

    Supplements Enhance Other Interventions

    Omega-3s reduce inflammation, which helps both medication and therapy work better. CoQ10 makes statins more tolerable. Magnesium helps sleep and anxiety.

    Supplements alone aren’t enough. But combined with other treatments, they enhance the overall effect.

    Mind-Body Practices Improve Everything

    Daily breathing exercises or mindfulness practice:

    • Reduce stress hormones (helping cardiovascular health)
    • Improve sleep (helping everything)
    • Enhance emotional regulation (helping mental health)
    • Lower inflammation (helping physical health)
    • Improve HRV (cardiovascular protection)

    Ten minutes daily of mind-body practice amplifies every other intervention.

    Addressing Root Causes Makes Treatment More Effective

    If inflammation is driving depression and that inflammation comes from poor diet, untreated sleep apnea, and chronic stress, then:

    • Just treating with antidepressants might help some
    • But addressing the inflammation sources works better
    • And prevents relapse when treatment eventually tapers

    Comprehensive care addresses root causes, not just symptoms.

     

    What This Requires from You

    I want to be honest: comprehensive integrative care requires more from you than standard care.

    Time Investment

    • Longer initial appointments
    • More frequent follow-ups at first
    • Time for therapy sessions
    • Time for lifestyle changes
    • Time for practices (breathing, meditation, exercise)

    You can’t do this in 15-minute appointments four times a year.

    Effort and Commitment

    Comprehensive care isn’t passive. You’re not just taking pills. You’re:

    • Practicing new skills
    • Changing habits
    • Learning and applying information
    • Monitoring yourself
    • Showing up for appointments and doing homework

    This is active participation in your health.

    Financial Investment

    Some aspects cost more than standard care:

    • Longer appointments
    • More lab work (though much is covered by insurance)
    • Therapy sessions
    • Quality supplements
    • Maybe nutrition consultation or other services

    Insurance coverage varies. Some is covered, some isn’t. This is reality.

    But compare the cost to:

    • Years of partially effective treatment
    • Future cardiac events
    • Disability from untreated conditions
    • Lost quality of life

    Comprehensive care costs more upfront but often saves money long-term by actually getting you better.

    Patience

    Comprehensive care takes time to work. You won’t feel dramatically better in two weeks. Meaningful change happens over months.

    You need to trust the process and stick with it even when progress feels slow.

     

    How to Find Integrative Care

    Not every provider practices this way. How do you find someone who does?

    Look for These Credentials

    • Board certified in their specialty (psychiatry, family medicine, internal medicine)
    • Additional training in integrative medicine, functional medicine, or similar
    • Interest in mind-body connection (check their website)
    • Practice emphasizes comprehensive assessment
    • Works collaboratively with other providers

    Ask These Questions

    “How long is your initial evaluation?” (If they say 15-30 minutes, they’re not doing comprehensive assessment)

    “What kind of lab work do you typically order?” (You want someone who goes beyond basic screening)

    “How do you address the connection between mental health and cardiovascular health?” (They should understand this connection)

    “What’s your approach to treatment? Medication only or more comprehensive?” (You want someone who offers multiple modalities)

    “Do you coordinate with other specialists?” (Collaboration is key)

    Red Flags

    • Promising quick fixes or cures
    • Selling lots of their own supplements or products
    • Rejecting all conventional medicine
    • Not interested in lab work or objective measures
    • Resistant to coordinating with other doctors
    • All treatment is cookie-cutter, not personalized

    Alternative Approaches

    If you can’t find one provider who does everything:

    Build a team:

    • Primary care doctor who’s holistic
    • Psychiatrist for medication
    • Therapist for psychotherapy
    • Functional medicine provider for comprehensive assessment
    • You coordinate between them

    Not ideal, but can work.

    Work with what you have:

    • Standard psychiatrist for medication management
    • Find your own therapist
    • Educate yourself and advocate for comprehensive testing
    • Work with your PCP on cardiovascular risk

    You can create some integration yourself even if your providers aren’t naturally integrative.

     

    The Vision: What’s Possible

    When everything works together, when we treat the whole person, when we address root causes, what becomes possible?

    Not Just Symptom Management, but Healing

    Depression doesn’t just improve. It resolves. You don’t just function. You thrive. You don’t just survive. You actually feel good.

    Not Just Treatment, but Prevention

    We don’t wait for heart attacks. We prevent them. We catch risk factors early. We intervene before problems develop. You don’t follow your family’s pattern because we break the cycle.

    Not Just Months of Relief, but Lasting Change

    Skills you learn become lifelong tools. Habits you build become permanent. Understanding you gain helps you maintain health long-term. This isn’t a quick fix that stops working when you stop treatment. It’s sustainable change.

    Not Just Adding Years to Life, but Life to Years

    The goal isn’t just living longer. It’s living better. More energy. Better mood. Stronger relationships. Sense of purpose. Quality of life matters as much as quantity.

    Not Just Treating Disease, but Creating Health

    There’s a difference between absence of disease and presence of health. We’re aiming for vibrant health, not just avoiding illness. That’s a different paradigm entirely.

     

    Your Next Step

    Maybe you’re reading this thinking: “This sounds great, but where do I even start?”

    Start somewhere. Anywhere. One step at a time.

    If You’re in Crisis

    Get help now. Standard care is fine when you need immediate stabilization. Emergency room, crisis line, urgent psychiatric care. Safety first.

    Once stable, then think about comprehensive care for long-term healing.

    If You’re Struggling But Not in Crisis

    Start with assessment:

    • Find a provider who does comprehensive evaluation
    • Get thorough lab work
    • Understand your complete health picture

    Then build your plan:

    • Address what’s most urgent first
    • Add interventions gradually
    • Don’t try to change everything at once

    Be patient:

    • Give interventions time to work
    • Track your progress
    • Adjust based on results

    If You’re Doing Okay But Want to Optimize

    Focus on prevention:

    • Get advanced cardiovascular testing if you have family history
    • Address risk factors proactively
    • Build habits that support long-term health

    Invest in skills:

    • Learn stress management
    • Develop mind-body practices
    • Build resilience before you need it

    Think long-term:

    • This is about the next 30-40 years, not just today

     

    The Bottom Line

    Your brain and your heart are connected. Your mental health and physical health are inseparable. Your thoughts affect your body. Your body affects your thoughts.

    Standard care treats these separately. Integrative care treats them together.

    Comprehensive integrative care means:

    • Looking at the whole person
    • Understanding root causes
    • Combining multiple evidence-based interventions
    • Emphasizing prevention
    • Partnering with you for your health

    It requires more time, effort, and investment than standard care. But it offers something standard care often can’t: real healing, lasting change, and optimal health.

    Depression doesn’t just increase your risk of heart disease. It’s an opportunity to address both your mental health and your cardiovascular health comprehensively.

    What if treating your depression could save your life? What if addressing your cardiovascular risk could improve your mood? What if looking at the whole picture could change everything?

    That’s not hope. That’s evidence-based integrative medicine.

    And it’s available to you.

     

    Ready to Experience Integrative Care?

    If you’re interested in comprehensive care that addresses both your mental health and your physical health, that looks at root causes and not just symptoms, that partners with you for your long-term wellbeing, my practice might be right for you.

    I offer:

    • Comprehensive initial evaluations (90-120 minutes)
    • Advanced laboratory assessment
    • Integration of medication, therapy, lifestyle, and evidence-based supplements
    • Coordination with other specialists
    • Focus on both treatment and prevention
    • Long-term partnership for your health

    This is what healthcare should be. Treating you as a whole person. Addressing root causes. Preventing problems before they develop. Creating real, lasting health.

     

    The Complete Series

    You’ve reached the end of this series on the heart-mind connection. Here are all the articles:

    Foundation:

    Understanding the Connection:

    Prevention and Treatment:

    Assessment and Testing:

    Practical Interventions:

    Thank you for reading. Your health matters. Your whole health.

     

    References & Research

    This article synthesizes concepts from the entire series, which are based on extensive peer-reviewed research:

    1. Levine GN, et al. (2021). Psychological Health, Well-Being, and the Mind-Heart-Body Connection: AHA Scientific Statement. Circulation. 143(10):e763-e783. [Comprehensive statement on mind-body-heart integration]
    2. Virani SS, et al. (2023). 2023 AHA/ACC Guidelines for Chronic Coronary Disease. Journal of the American College of Cardiology. 82(9):833-955. [Guidelines supporting comprehensive care]
    3. El Baou C, et al. (2023). Psychological Therapies for Depression and Cardiovascular Risk. European Heart Journal. 44(18):1650-1662. [Evidence for integrated treatment approaches]
    4. Kim JM, et al. (2018). Effect of Escitalopram vs Placebo on Long-term Cardiac Outcomes: EsDEPACS Trial. JAMA. 320(4):350-358. [Integrated treatment improves cardiovascular outcomes]
    5. Apostolos A, et al. (2025). Depression and Coronary Artery Disease—Where We Stand? Journal of Clinical Medicine. 14(12):4281. [Current understanding of integrated care need]
    6. Noordzij R, et al. (2024). Practice Recommendations on the Management of Cardiometabolic Risk in Mental Healthcare. European Psychiatry. 67(1):e38. [Guidelines for integrated care]
    7. Lake J, Spiegel D. (2017). Complementary and Alternative Treatments in Mental Health Care. American Psychiatric Publishing. [Integrative approaches]
    8. Rapaport MH, et al. (2016). Inflammation as a predictive biomarker for response to omega-3 fatty acids in major depressive disorder. Brain, Behavior, and Immunity. [Integration of supplements in treatment]
    9. Scott-Sheldon LAJ, et al. (2020). Mindfulness-Based Interventions for Adults With Cardiovascular Disease. Annals of Behavioral Medicine. [Mind-body practices in integrated care]
    10. Köhler-Forsberg O, et al. (2023). Efficacy and Safety of Antidepressants in Patients With Comorbid Depression and Medical Diseases. JAMA Psychiatry. 80(12):1196-1207. [Supporting integrated treatment] 

    For verification: Integrated treatment approaches addressing both mental health and cardiovascular risk produce superior outcomes to treating either condition in isolation. Combination of medication, psychotherapy, lifestyle intervention, and evidence-based supplementation creates synergistic effects. Comprehensive assessment identifying root causes and risk factors enables targeted, personalized treatment planning.

    About Dr. Bliss Lewis

    Dr. Bliss Lewis is a board-certified psychiatrist specializing in integrative medicine. Her practice is built on the understanding that mental health and physical health are inseparable, and that optimal care requires treating the whole person, not just isolated symptoms or diagnoses.

     

    This article describes one approach to comprehensive integrative care. Healthcare is personal and should be tailored to individual needs, values, and circumstances. Work with providers you trust to create the approach that’s right for you.

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